Monday, November 11, 2013

REPLICATING DATES...FLASHBACK MEMORIES...!!!

     


I wonder if mathematician says that numbers are till infinity, then why every  year the similar dates  reiterate itself??? why can't we let the dates to go on increasing..without reverberation???

What if someone commit to memory accordingly as dates, reap every single gear in the bucket of the memories which he or she nurtures every single day just because he or she is too blind for someone?? and at the same time too concerned for the time that they had spent with their loved ones??Doesn't these numbers(dates) hurts them??Doesn't these numbers hovers around them every time ??What if the person  now can't even share these dates and its importance with the one who made it special?? What if the person who made the date memorable is now not by his or her side??Doesn't it feel helpless for him or her??helpless because now he or she don't have that person to lean upon n tell him or her every single thing she or he used to earlier, helpless in this world where very few understand the word EMOTIONS, feelings and the rest takes it as a jokes apart. Does these all make them recall each and every single moment they had squander together on that very date once..?? Doesn't these dates made them dredge up all the promises ,love, commitments they have once made on the very date??
Though it's true that everyday we deem of the person we love but some dates which had once made special hurts badly when it repeats itself knowing that the person who made it special has now moved on and the memories will be just memories. And even if it hurts like hell nothing can be done.
 These dates are just the excuses to recall all the pleasing reminisce spent with the loved ones or to live and fancy that moment once again with them although they are now far away from us. I know dreams are far better than realities because reality always bequeath us pain and dreams always takes us to the world where we want to live. But it's not viable to live in dreams consistently. It's ridiculous to reap every single day in overlooking someone. It's not feasible to splurge all your time for the people who left us. Life waits for none. It just go on. And we people has to go with its pace taking all the ecstasy and grief side by side. And show the correct emotion at the correct place because it is truly said "there is no market for EMOTIONS, it's the best toy to play with."
Someone has said ,that the world is round. The place from where we have started our journey, we will end up there only. So one day or the other we are gonna convene with the one we wish for. So if you truly love and admire somebody, wait for the journey of your life which will surely take you to that person again..And this time...FOREVER !!!

PS-The time they had laughed together, the time they had cried together, the time in which they lived for each other..the time they loved each other and the time still to come when they will love each other again.

One day out of these 366 days, on one of the dates they will surely meet...!! :) :)

Wednesday, October 09, 2013

LIFE...Concoction of happiness and sorrow..!!!


As heard the quote 'the journey never ends, it continues, though the person changes from one to another'.  Life give us a loads of experiences rather delightful or ghastly. It's all about how we decide to travel the journey of our life. Everything has its good or bad aspect, it's on us how we people take it. Either we learn from the bad situation or we start to adjust with those or the last but the best one that people generally do is to escape from it. Rather than solving the problems people find escaping much easier to do.
 Life at one side gives us many exhilaration but at the same time gives us grief too. Happiness and sorrow are the parts of life. No one can escape these two factors of life. Everyone goes through it. Everybody wants happiness in their life .We people always wish to have glee in our life .We wish happiness to stay with us forever with no space for grief and sorrow in life. And since human beings have the habit to criticise everything, When things go right with us we eulogise everything around us and when things goes contrary to our wish, we never abscond a single chance to blame, blame almighty, blame destiny and everything around us. Pessimism of our preoccupied brain dominate us on this insight. When something good transpire, we rarely think about our destiny and any external aspects but if there's something wrong with us we start blaming.
Life goes on and so does we people. But the questions arise how we spend our life. Either enjoying every part of life or by having complaints with everything happening with us.

There may be days when we get up in the morning and find things aren't the way we have anticipate they would be.Times,when we try so hard to smile before everyone while we are gradually dying deep inside.It is truly said-IT'S BETTER TO SMILE THAN TO EXPLAIN THE REASON WHY WE ARE SAD.We should accept the truth that sad face doesn't stop the moves of the world.
There's comes a time when we tell ourselves that things will get better.There will be times when people thwart us and let us down, but those are the times when we must remind ourselves to trust our own judgement and keep our life focused on believing in ourselves.Every problem has a solution,every question has an answer.Just because we don't have a solution today doesn't mean we will never have them.This is not the end,today's test will definitely bring tomorrow's promotion.Remember the time we start being positive and strong again,people will try to pull us down at every step,but if we allow ourselves to fall then,there will always be those who are willing to step all over us.As said by a great man-"THE BEST WAY TO ESCAPE FROM PROBLEM IS TO SOLVE THEM".So we should keep growing stronger each day,trust ALMIGHTY that today or tomorrow he will undeniably be with you.Be focused,be optimistic and be determined.Darkness doesn't last forever.AFTER EVERY DARK NIGHT THERE COMES A SHINY MORNING TOO. New opportunities will emerge and our likeness and light will shine again.And we will flourish and be successful even in the hardest and toughest of times. So smile and let everyone know that you are determined enough towards your destination. So no matter how much time it takes to reach there, we won't give up.


P.S-life is just once, so live it to its best and never get frightened with any difficulties because it is not going to be with you always. It persists for a short time only. It's on you how you face the challenges of your life.

Thursday, October 03, 2013

A DAY WITH SOMEONE YOU LOVE.... “Living far apart...distance affects. Distance hurts...pain remains...”



 Though we live our life everyday but we actually feel alive with those people around us who has a magical effect on us, the effect that take us to another world  and the day I met him was one of the day I felt alive to my full. The feeling which enrolled around me was inconceivable. The excitement to meet you, overwhelmed me so much that I was in cloud nine. I was so happy that I couldn't express anyone what I was going through.


It was 7'o clock when my phone rang and yes it was him. Finally he reached my place. And finally I got that time I had him only him with me. The time which was always awaited has finally breezed in. The tune of guitar chorused through my heart. The rate of happiness to have him has gone beyond infinity. On the way to meet him thousands of thoughts came to my mind which I wanted to do in that single day. But the moment I saw him standing in front of me, every single atoms of mine lost its existence and suddenly I lost all my thoughts and planning’s, the only thing left was my heartbeats, my feelings, my tears (girls weakness I guess) and him. I so engrossingly wanted to touch him. If someone can pinch me and assure me that everything happening was real, that he was here. Seeing him made me forget all my worries all my problems and every negativity and complaint which I had from my life. The thing I only want at that very instant of time was Just HIM and HIS LOVE AND CARE. My heartbeat elevated as if somebody was intimidating my heartbeat (dhak dhak..dhak dhak) which was waiting to hear something special from him. I was nervous, shaky, shy, shivering and then he spoke just one sentence that broke me down into tears. I love you baby, missed you like hell. And nothing can be more romantic than this moment for a girl who has always been waiting to hear these three words. I was out of the world ,confused how to react at that instant whether to hold his hand tightly or hug him tightly or to just be in his arms silently, childishly and remain there forever with no disturbances. Every fraction of second that I spent that day with him was precisely auspicious. We enjoyed each other’s company. We were as comfortable as we had never been before. It was the day when after years we met and this made both of us emotionally weaken. But he didn't showed much of his emotions,only tried to control mine's, but I knew deep inside he too felt the same way as me. No conversation only silence prevailed for some time and then he started. How have you been? I never found this question so difficult until that moment. Literally it was the most difficult question to be answered. But putting all my efforts I replied I’m good. How about you? And he replied the same, but we both knew nobody was doing well without each other and then the silence prevailed again, seeing just in the eyes of each other."SOMETIMES SILENCE SPEAKS EVERYTHING THAT NOT EVEN WORDS CAN CONVEY". We roamed here and there. Any place becomes gratifying with the one you love the most infact places doesn't counts much at that time. We had a pleasing time.

And then abruptly one of my friend saw us, with no intuition of disturbing us, but actually our privacy was somehow broken. And my friend reminded me that he has to go back that day itself. Very few time was left to be spent with him. This made me shattered, distressed. The thoughts of leaving him hurt me a lot. The thought of living without him distantly feared me again. And the girl was going to be broken and lonely again without her love .I just don’t want to leave his hand or rather him to be more peculiar. Don’t want to be away from him, just wanted to hold him throughout in my life, but good times are short lived. The one who comes has to go and I have accepted this truth. My special day, which was the most precious day of my life  ended .I wish I could stop all the watches, stop the time to move, wished if this 24 hours could stretched to 24 more hours, but I knew these things happens only in fairy tales and movies and reality is somewhat very different from reality. Keeping pains of being away from each other once again in our heart we departed with his hug and our last kiss. We somehow left each other at that instant but we couldn't control our tears. With a promise of meeting again very soon,he left and the beautiful day was gone but what left was the memories which we both took with oneself.

P.S- hope love that teach us to stay together...can give us so much strength that even we live far apart..distance doesn't affect the intensity of love...instead it grow with passing time...with all the sweet memories engraved in our heart...


love that breaks us..but still keeps us together..love dat create distances..but still brings closer... eternal love...:) :)